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So many of us have been given bad answers to good questions -- questions about God, suffering, prayer, fate, science, justice, and more -- often by people with pure intentions. But we needn't stop with those pat answers. You have permission to take both Christianity and the modern world very seriously, and this podcast will introduce you to people from across the Christian spectrum engaging these timeless and difficult questions in various ways.

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  • Emeraldman
    Intellectually curious, maybe, but…
    … I’m done. The episode on libertarianism was a dealbreaker for me. Buying into the 60 years of lies from megalomaniacal billionaires and corporations that large societies with large problems don’t need communal action — rather, that government is the *cause* of our problems — is not just insane, but sinister. A hypercapitalist one-value nation needs a strong counterweight, and ours is being summarily butchered. “Overreach.” Give me a break. Neutered, more like. WPIWRUJLO? (What private island would rich, untaxed Jesus live on?)
  • Acpacpacp
    Hit and miss
    Meh
  • bGuiles
    Unacceptably offensive episode title
    Really? 🙄 As a Christian not represented by anti-LGBTQ Christian fascists, I request that you re-title your most recent episode from “Why Are Christians So Bad With Queer People” to “Why Are Some Christians…”
  • mjdtjd
    Keep it going!
    Loved the first episode about the Chosen. Have many people in my life wanting me to watch that and probably get me saved again. I am always intrigued about movies and documentaries about Jesus but growing up in a fundamental charismatic church I am very hesitant to spend my time watching them unless it is from a Jewish perspective or something from someone like a John Dominick Crossan. Long time listener and love the diversity of thought on your show. Even though I would not be considered a Christian in most circles I appreciate your openness of your journey and respect your thoughtfulness. Would also love to hear a Jewish Rabbis perspective also on the Chosen. Keep it going and take care. Matt
  • CharlotteDaSpider
    The best
    Of all the deconstructionist podcasts I listen to, this one is the best. Dan has a thoughtful and wide-ranging choice of guests and topics and he is a gifted and compassionate host and interviewer. This podcast has really helped me in my deconstruction journey.
  • rozelynn20
    Thoughtful
    Appreciate the conversations - insightful and well designed
  • Jric3
    Episode 172
    Quoting Aaron Weiss is an auto five star review as I see it!
  • Ail3ma
    Useful conversations
    I recently found this podcast and I totally agree with a lot of the other reviews: interesting and helpful conversations, and I wish the host talked a bit less during the interviews. I can’t blame him because there’s so much to say about the topics. And I do enjoy his reflections as well. I’d suggest a longer debrief from him at the end instead of throughout the conversation. I haven’t listened to many of the later episodes so maybe he’s already taken the critiques to heart. Kudos if so.
  • TribeJenkins
    Great show, stop talking about Trump…
    I love this show, would give it more than 5 stars if I could! Thank you Dan for opening the door to conversations and thoughts that I needed to hear to make me own journey of de-constructing my Assemblies of God upbringing and re-constructing my own faith. That said, stop conflating people who voted for Trump with thoughtless religious and political right-wing robots. Some people voted for Trump because they saw him as the less of two unfavorable options for many reasons. They did not vote for him because they loved him or were caught up in some thoughtless cult of follower-ship. Also de-constructing doesn’t equal left wing liberal. De-constructing can be for all the registered independents like me who want to think and vote and have a faith of their own. It’s a beautiful albeit scary journey that anyone can take.
  • holding things lightly
    Thoroughly researched
    I have listened to a large number of deconstruction/ exvangelical podcasts, and I find that this one tends to have a significant amount of research done before the dialogue, which is helpful because it means that the conversations will generally be constructive instead of simply bashing. Dan does a good job of connecting with guests that are well versed in their area of study. The criticisms of him interrupting are fair, though having been a part of this journey for a bit I can see the growth! I especially love that Dan has his own particular area of expertise with spiritual abuse, that generally always helps enhance the conversations. I am grateful for this podcast.
  • Nygbrd
    Dan goes Deeeep!
    These are some of the deepest probing conversations on faith, deconstruction and formation I’ve heard anywhere. Unhurried and thoughtful and as long as two hours, Dan’s background in ministry and current study in psychological bring a well-rounded perspective to each topic. The time and attention are worth it. I really respect his approach and find these conversations enriching and challenging.
  • QueenBeeBee257
    It was all good until…
    Really loved a lot of the episodes and it helped me through my journey with my faith. The reason I can’t listen anymore is because the polyamory episode lacked a lot of productive ways to speak about the conversation and topic. There wasn’t anyone on there to interview who was polyamorous and although I understood the hesitations that the host has with polyamory, it was full of the assumptions with a relationship orientation that isn’t typically accepted. I felt like he did such a great job researching topics on other episodes, and then this episode didn’t have all of his attention and insight. I’m appreciative for how former episodes healed me in my faith journey, and no longer want to listen after having a topic discussing a part of who I am be poorly represented. So I leave taking the good from it and hope that polyamory will be better understood one day.
  • grebie62
    Unpack Your Religion
    Provides insight into lifeless dead faith religion with the hope of being an authentic follower of Jesus. Genuine faith and truth can stand up to hard questions and endure to show the way.
  • kenderellah
    Interesting topics but to much talking
    I love all the topics discussed on this podcast but I find myself always frustrated because I feel like the host talks more than the guests do! Why have guests that are experts on things and not let them talk?!
  • Soliloquy72
    So much to think about
    This podcast is always thought provoking. It's so important to listen to people with different perspectives and not live in a bubble. I'm so grateful for everything I've learned.
  • Listener2021:)
    Autistic Episode
    I love your episode with the autistic woman Erin. Really appreciate you highlighting an autistic perspective on church etc. I also enjoy your episodes with Tony Jones. So interesting.
  • Gamgnam 12343212
    Not gospel centered and logic misses a lot of blank and points
    Not just a criticism of his progressive beliefs, but the arguments supporting blatant sinful acts. Sin shouldn’t be glorified, or watered down. Sin is evil.
  • faithhmadeline
    Interesting, Thoughtful, & Challenging
    I really enjoy this podcast for several reasons. Firstly, because of how kind and genuine the host is. He is discussing difficult topics and yet he remains kind and open to hearing others opinions. Secondly, as a Believer and someone who doesn’t agree with a lot of what is said on this podcast, I greatly appreciate this podcast because it challenges me and helps me question what I believe and even the Bible itself. God can withstand our questions and doubts as our Creator, so I’ve never worried when I’ve had them, and I don’t understand why questions and doubts are so shamed and hush hush in most evangelical circles. I am lucky to have a church that is open to my questions and helps me find answers in the Word of God, but so many aren’t. I am glad this podcast tries to poke holes and asks so many difficult questions many people don’t want to discuss. Quality podcast, Dan :)
  • Lil' Keesh
    Valuable content
    A friend recommended this show to me and I’m quickly becoming a big fan. The conversations are valuable and really fill the gap for conversations that are lacking in American Christian society.
  • Mt.6:24
    Good work Dan, keep it up!
    More people & podcasts are talking these days about the things Jesus taught (in the 4 gospels), but there are a few of his teachings that almost never get serious coverage. Several references (EXCLUDING the “rich young ruler”) are made in Luke about selling all of one’s possessions & giving to the poor and then this teaching is shown to be taken seriously by the time we get to the book of Acts (end of chapters 2 & 4). Another powerful & often neglected paradigm-changing (IF taken at face value) teaching of Jesus is found in Mt. 6:24; Lk. 16:13-14). This has been called the “Two Masters teaching”, one being God/Love and the other/opposite one being money. What would Christianity look like, both inside its confines and to the world at large, if these teachings were given much more serious consideration and application? Take a leap of faith and dive deep into these teachings! ✌🏼
  • Bridgette384619373819
    One of my top favs
    Been listening to Dan for a few years. Great interviewer and humble intellectual with a great curiosity towards his guests; a unique gift
  • liz123456789
    Well done.
    I love this podcast every time. Well done, Dan.
  • miajfriend
    💀
    Shows up at church. “Hey guys, what are we doin’?” “I’ll tell you what we’re NOT doing!” Lol! I’m still belly laughing from that one.
  • Josh Kettles
    Not a Deconstruction Podcast
    I was introduced to Dan Koch from his Depolarized podcast and am so glad to have found this. I may not agree 100% with everything he or his guests believe, but the conversations are very intellectually honest and coming from a place of genuine attempt to be faithful to the Christian faith. Dan is a great guy. He’s a little rough around the edges at interviewing his guests (can interrupt them too much), but I’ve appreciated the diversity of guests he brings on, as well as his own thoughts each episode. Lastly, I appreciate that his goal is explicitly to help people take their Christian faith tradition seriously—not to just poke holes and leave them to deconstruct what they grew up being told.
  • Ladyexlibris
    Mind Blown
    This podcast always blows my mind wide open and reminds me why I still believe. Phenomenal.
  • empress603
    Great content but host needs humility
    I really enjoy listening to this podcast most of the time, but I’m going to second some reviewers who have called in Dan for his tonal arrogance, especially when he is talking to guests who are not cis men. It can be pretty alienating to listeners.
  • itsnorrislikechuck
    Enneagram Episode 101
    Man I love this podcast a lot and have listened to most of them up to this point, But this one had mad sexist energy. I’d love to see the time per comment chart on the five participants I’ll bet it’s like 10% Sari and Sarah, Blake
  • FeeneyA
    I’m a fan, but...
    I really like this podcast but I have two main criticisms: - Dan interrupts people A LOT, which is frustrating for listener and guest (and pretty rude) - The introductory tone of the podcast tries to come off as unbiased/rational, but it seems that Dan isn’t actually as willing to listen as much as he wants the other side to be. Strong biases coming into many of the conversations. Side note, some of the reviews made me lol about this being heresy. Haha.
  • GlassButrFly
    Love the podcast, but hard to listen because of the host interrupting
    I love this podcast - the guests and topics are superb, and the host asks deep questions. Unfortunately it is sometimes hard to listen without getting annoyed at the host's CONSTANT interruptions/talking over of the guests. I feel like some of the guests can't fully elucidate their points because of this, and it's leaving good information on the table.
  • 
    Incredible
    An incredible tool in my deconstruction journey. Thank you for doing hard work for those of us doing hard work.
  • profshep
    Feedback
    First I want to say that I feel compelled to listen to this podcast despite finding some of the mannerisms of the host extremely white, male, egocentric, annoying. It seems unfair of me to be so critical of personality, but as an aspiring therapist, maybe Dan can learn to practice a little less self disclosure with his clients... I mean guests. (I think I’ve heard his plate analogy in at least 4 different episodes...) I feel this podcast (and host) has so much potential!! Dan is spot on, and super insightful in his assessment of the content spoken - but as a regular listener, I often find myself wanting to here more the thoughts of the guest, and not so much the opinions of the host that I’ve heard multiple times. Dan is the best when he sticks to reflective listening and unpacks what his guests have to say without getting on a soapbox of his own ideas.
  • gkeebler
    Usually Great
    Except episode #100. Interesting and knowledgeable guest constantly interrupted by the host. A frustrating listen.
  • boshtones
    Some of the best thinking on faith out there
    Dan speaks in layman’s terms, but he can link his thinking to various theologians and other experts. He is open-minded and straightforward, but also cares and believes that something matters. His guests are interesting, and the conversations are a great sharpener for my own journey.
  • Wgdydgb
    One of the best
    I look forward to listening every week and have been working my way though the backlog, same with the Patreon exclusive pod. Tons of nuanced and insightful discussion. It’s been a massive help in my deconstruction/reconstruction process. The people with low star reviews seem to be missing the entire concept of the pod, which is quite literally in the title - You Have Permission. Dan isn’t trying to force views on anyone, with each episode he lays out a different topic and has multiple perspectives on how an issue can be viewed.
  • lavapandabluesnake
    Gentle and curious space for Christian reconstruction
    I am so glad that I found this podcast. Past the gnarlier parts of my deconstruction, I appreciate YHP’s thoughtful explanation of and discussion of thought streams in the greater world of Christianity, as I reconstruct my faith. It is titled perfectly. So many of needed permission to explore ideas and ask questions, but weren’t given it in our faith environments. Thanks for providing a space like this, Dan!
  • Abby not Abigail
    A great thinking podcast!
    Excited to listen to this podcast to think about different perspectives!
  • Based_Nobleman
    Awful
    How does this podcast claim to be Christian? I’m open to discussion surrounding Scripture but this is like some guys personal cope. The amount of white guilt and borderline cuckoldry is so hard to listen to. The church would not exist if men like this existed when Paul went West. I will pray for this guy. It obvious he has significant confusion, and likely a bit of childhood trauma. This is a far left, anti white(truly), anti conservative, collection of opinions.
  • 7-20Vision
    Popcornacopia Review Response
    This podcast addresses many theological ideas and questions, radical and traditional. Yes, Dan Koch has episodes on topics such as there being multiple ways to enter heaven. That’s the point! This podcast does not intend to convert you to a certain thinking of the Christian Faith, but to expand your view of it and hear how other people think about God, faith, and life. If you’re listening thinking this podcast is trying to convert you to a progressive Christian, you’re gonna have a bad time. If you’re listening with eagerness to learn about different perspectives of the faith, you’re gonna have a great time.
  • Popcornacopia
    Lacks a belief of inerrancy
    Just a heads up to anyone listening. I’ve listened to a few of the episodes of this podcast, and have heard some things that are against the Bible. Namely the ideas that there are many multiple ways to heaven (through different religions even) as well as the idea that the Bible is not inerrant and that some ideas can be excused or excluded. There is also good information and teacher here, but I would be certain you have a strong scriptural foundation prior to listening.
  • Newishcooker
    Essential Listening
    Dan has been a lodestar for me over the past several years: I cannot overstate his influence on my faith and my intellect.
  • maboyle88
    One of the best podcasts on deconstructing faith
    I’m binging this podcast as I move out of my evangelical upbringing and into a more progressive type of faith. The topical episodes are specifically designed for someone moving in that direction like I am and I appreciate the attention to detail and fair approach that Dan provides
  • JordanShowalter
    Incredible Podcast
    I love the content of this podcast. The topics of conversation mirror my own walk in life, and I have found value in nearly every episode. I also think Dan is incredibly articulate, easy to listen to, and relatable. He speaks in a way that makes me lean in and listen. I’m impressed with the guest list that Dan has accumulated throughout the life of the podcast. I assume his musical endeavors as well as his academic and theological pursuits have led him to make meaningful connections with experts across a wide spectrum of ideas. Seems to have paid off. Keep doing what you’re doing.
  • Troy Z
    Highly Recommend
    Dan offers a candid, humorous, and vulnerable environment to ask serious questions about faith. I’ve learned a lot from his work over the last three years or so. Dan, keep up the good work!
  • Ryan P TX
    Really Great Topics to Wrestle Through
    The topics covered in this podcast and incredibly informative and engaging. I appreciate that Dan brings enough of his story in the mix to be relatable, but is also rather humble in presenting these things as topics to be considered, not necessarily the only truth out there.
  • fuzzystarcloud
    good stuff
    I really enjoy this podcast. Dan is a blessing. He is doing good work. I wish he would make more podcasts on his other show Depolarize. I want to depolarize myself, but it will take some work. I haven’t figured it out yet, but I’m trying, and still seeking. Thank you Dan for the good work you do 🖖🏿🕊💐
  • CRAZY LOVEr
    Solid!
    One of the best ex-vangelical-type podcasts I’ve found! Especially for those who find the need to nail down a new understanding of their faith or the Bible after deconstructing.
  • MichaelMahncke
    Enjoying
    I really like Dan’s willingness to be open to listening and considering a variety of views in seeking to understand God.
  • Mississippi Country
    Intriguing Questions
    I come from a very fundamentalist, conservative, evangelical background that preaches a very experiential-to-achieve-truth message while simultaneously being theologically warped (Oneness Pentecostal). It’s very much a tradition that believes if you read it in the Bible, your first intuition is essentially how God intended it to be read. Needless to say, once the experiences stopped, everything went out the window due to my reliance on having an experience to receive truth. For roughly half-a-decade now, I have been on this faith journey and multiple times I have just about given up. I’ve cried out angrily at God, I’ve bitterly told people I love that there’s no way this God I was taught to believe in can exist. To put it mildly, it has been troubling. However, that was prior to stumbling across podcast’s like You Have Permission and The Bible for Normal People by Pete Enns. As I’ve become more exposed to the intellectual side of Christianity that acknowledges there are some things we just can’t grasp and isn’t looking to answer every single question due to some overarching objective truth that is preached to exist or be found through an experiential means, I have found a degree of peace that allows me to ask questions or say I don’t know or even say things that I used to repent for because it was blasphemous to speak in that way against God. So if your story is anything like mine, podcast’s like this will be a release for you as you begin to understand that the shell you were taught to never stray away from is just an illusion meant to comfort or even control those that want a definite answer. Give this podcast a shot, you’ll thoroughly enjoy it.
  • Hanbanan101
    Heresy
    A lot of heresy masquerading as “open conversations”.
  • Turtlehead Tim
    Great Podcast with challenging content
    Dan does a great job of bringing on a mix of people with differing perspectives/views - and while this may challenge some, I think for many of us it gives us a place to explore ideas and consider positions we may have not taken into account before. If you are looking for a podcast that covers a wide variety of topics from a broad range of views, You Have Permission is the right place!
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