Husband Material

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Sexuality #113

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode makes it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.

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  • Mattie Tay Tay
    One of the best podcasts I’ve ever listened to!!!
    This podcast discusses, teaches and explores what life can be when we are completely free from pornography & sexual brokenness. From Drew Boa the founder of Husband Material, Drew interviews & conducts live episodes with many amazing guests, professors, and other trained professionals that educate listeners on a topic that isn’t talked about enough. You can gain healing, health, and freedom along this journey. Check it out! You’ll be so glad you did.
  • Blockbusterboy
    Best podcast and community on sensitive subject
    I found this podcast from a rec from a book on Male Sexual Abuse. The host shows great compassion and insight on dissecting such a rampant issue in our society today. Each of his guest bring a level of knowledge and healing to make you wanna take action steps in ending such unwanted sexual addictions. Truly grateful I came across this podcast. It truly is life changing.
  • BelovedTexasSon
    THIS is the Stuff!
    Drew’s podcast is a breath of fresh air for Christian men! Although designed for college-aged men, Christian men who have influence on other men should listen to this powerful, Gospel-centered podcast to have an appropriate response when the conversation inevitably turns to sexuality. It is encouraging to see young men like Drew tackle “unmentionable” topics the church has traditionally dodged. When I found his podcast I binged on it. I couldn’t stop listening. His words echoed ideas I’ve been thinking about this subject for some time. I literally tear up every time he signs off reminding me (and you), “YOU are God’s beloved son. In YOU He is well pleased.”
  • philyTN
    Really gets into the mind and core of the struggle
    I have loved the scene to many of these podcasts. the topics are diverse so much that I’ve thought and never heard anyone talk about. It’s really been impactful and I’ve shared it with many.
  • Always Mister Wright
    Encouraging!
    I am grateful for the heart and compassion, wisdom and encouragement I have received from listening to the Husband Material podcasts. I am being challenged to think differently about my life’s journey, my past experiences, and how God sees me, and how I see myself. Drew and his guests share truth, insight and wisdom - and there is an obvious heart of compassion for men who have been deeply wounded and struggling for years. No condemnation, but always a reminder that I am treasured and deeply loved by my Heavenly Father, and loved and supported by men just like me - how can I not be encouraged when Drew signs off every video and podcast with “remember, you are God’s beloved son, in you he is well pleased”.
  • Nathan_K89
    Great content
    I have really enjoyed Drew’s you tube channel for quite some time now! I have the option to listen to this podcast while at work or doing daily life. I love his genuine love and desire to help men outgrow porn. This podcast is helpful, uplifting and encouraging! Thank you for the stories and interviews all pointing back to Jesus! Keep up the good work brother!
  • Changed for the Better
    A Life Changing Program
    Husband Material’s Drew Boa weekly explores male sexuality in all its aspects. Although it’s main purpose is to “help Christian men outgrow porn and save their marriage” it is so much more and can help men of all faiths, both married and single. I have found answers to questions I’ve had for many years but not known where to find someone who will talk on the topics covered in these podcasts. Drew speaks frankly, honestly and explicitly but in an uplifting and positive manner that gives hope to the hopeless, encouragement to those who struggle and practical advice that can change the lives of those who apply his simple but profound advice.
  • bjett
    Like nothing I’ve ever seen before
    This podcast was my introduction to Drew and to the Husband Material community and its altered my life. At the beginning it was me learning about my own desires and sexuality and how they were formed out of pain. I love the sense of care and kindness that Drew brings to each topic. As I have become more involved in the community and now participated in the Husband Material retreat twice, I can say I’ve never seen anything like this. I’ve made my closest friendships and experienced deep restoration. Husband Material is really a culture that honors the experience of being a male, the good parts and the less good parts, and aims to reconnect us with the Jesus who never rejects us.
  • 98cv
    Changed my life
    I had been drawn to porn for almost 40 years. Drew Boa and Husband Material have helped me gain freedom from porn that no filter, grit, determination or prayerful resolution ever could. I didn’t know kindness towards myself could bring such dramatic healing. If you have found yourself enslaved to porn Drew has a different outlook that is well worth investigating. I didn’t know I could experience this freedom. It’s amazing.
  • CJ 51
    Great content with a great delivery.
    One of the things I appreciate the most about this podcast is the lack of salesmanship. Drew is letting the product sell itself and that is incredibly effective. He puts out compelling excellent content and it is so easy to listen to without repetitive lines to try to get men to sign up for a subscription service or endlessly repeating the same lines. Thank you Drew. Also, I wrote a question Husband Material webpage, and instead of getting an e-mail reply, Drew himself sent me a video of himself answering my question! Impressive!
  • JJN MacBook Air
    Rare and Powerful Wisdom and Guidance
    Drew Boa possesses poise and wisdom beyond his years. If porn viewing imprisons you; if you’ve wondered about or struggled with how your sexual arousal and desires were formed (or deformed); or if you long to be a more mature, sexually grounded, and spiritually integrated man, then sample some of these podcasts.
  • Tim5265
    Awesome information
    This podcast is life changing! A holy approach to being a better man!
  • Steven0619
    A Lifeline
    I have struggled with sexual issues for a majority of my life. I have pursued help through counseling and church many times. The HM material approach of curiosity and compassion has changed my life. I am so thankful for Drew and the Husband Material community. I highly reccomend this ministry to anyone looking for emotional maturity and for a way to outgrow porn.
  • sdoughtie
    Be Careful
    Life coaches on HM have no duty to you to keep things in confidence; I was ghosted when I asked for an explaination.
  • ShelbsM29!
    This content has saved my marriage!
    Drew, my husband is in his recovery journey and is a part of your HMA community. I just wanted to express how deeply thankful I am to God for you and the mission you’re on to help men outgrow porn. Your content has redefined everything about porn, recovery, and sex for me personally and for my husband. I also wanted to specifically say “thanks” for recently including more content that relates to women/wives! I’ve found it really difficult to find good content for wives of recovering porn addicts, and it means a lot when you emphasize the female perspective. Always praying for your marriage and ministry!
  • Philip Cardwell
    Walking with Drew
    I try to walk about three miles every evening and about two weeks after I started walking, I discovered this podcast. I just made up my mind to listen to every episode. So much good insight and information and instruction. Love listening to Drew as I walk!
  • believe1212
    A great resource
    Drew is great resource for learning how to live your best life. Practical tips and topics about beginning the recovery journey to how to live an integrated life. A++ podcast!
  • edppp9
    so personal
    i can relate so deeply to so many of the issues drew and his guests talk about. these issues are so hard for men to think and talk about but i’m so glad to know that i’m no where near alone in struggling with them. i now have the verbiage and strength to talk with my friends about things like porn and same-sex attraction and i’m now helping them work through their struggles as i’m working through mine. god bless drew and everyone else involved in this podcast!
  • Sir Buzzard
    husband material
    The podcast is fine but strongly suggest you don't join Husband Material (HM). I've been really struggling with trusting people and being rejected. I made a few posts on HM about my stuggles and some of the responses were helpful. My hardened exterior was starting to soften but then got a vague email saying that I was kicked out of HM and my account was deleted. Without warning or talking with me first. I no longer have access to the guys that were really helping me and I'm once again alone. This further instills my trust issues and being rejected. I won't again trust a ministry that's suppose to help guys but instead abandons him when he's desperately looking for help.
  • ShawnTP
    This is WISDOM at its core!!!
    I NEVER leave reviews! And I mean almost never. I can probably count on one hand (which is not a great thing, and I need to explore why), but it’s honestly something I don’t enjoy doing and have a hard time with. In full transparency, this review is written because I was led to do it after being prompted. I can say though, out of all the reviews I would ever consider writing, this is definitely one of the tops. I can go on and on for paragraphs of the profound wisdom this podcast and community provides, but I won’t for the sake of time. What I will say is Drew is truly a man after God’s own heart, and he has a beautiful crown of glory waiting for him in Heaven. If you let down your walls, open your heart to the real love of God, and allow Jesus’ strength to be made perfect in your weakness, this podcast and community will change your life!! There are so many tools and nuggets for God’s freedom and healing. As I’ve been on my own freedom and healing journey, this podcast shined so much light on the dark places that were/are still lingering in my heart and soul. I’m still not where I want to be, but I now have a toolbox of both spiritual and natural tools to become the man God has called me to be. Much of what is shared is rooted in biblical truths, which is a necessity for the true freedom and salvation God is calling his children into. Thank you Drew and HM Coaches for allowing God to use you in such a way to bring about His peace, joy, truth, and most of all His Love! The empathy and compassion is real! You and we are God’s beloved sons, and in us he is well pleased! 😁❤️🙏🏽
  • Keith11998877
    Insightful content!
    Drew is a humble and relatable man! I am honored to have made his acquaintance. I have really enjoyed listening to his podcasts while making notes. He has shifted my focus away from white knuckling and shame-based approaches to kindness and empathy for the little boy inside me. With his guidance I have been willing to revisit the past so as to truly thrive in the present.
  • Timotheous H
    Husband Material
    Super insightful & encouraging podcast in helping me grow into my full potential as a man of God!
  • cjnieset
    Thank You Drew!!
    So extremely thankful and grateful for your material and guests as you present us with amazing opportunities to learn and heal from our sexual brokenness. We are all at different stages and have different brokenness’s. Thank you Lord for Drew and all that he is doing to help us men heal from our sexual brokenness!!
  • Aidyn Sevilla
    Wonderful Resources and Conversations
    This is a great series of conversations! Drew’s overall approach is highly informed, very profession, yet very gentle, and with the utmost fidelity to his faith tradition. In both solo episodes, and with the guests he interviews, he provides a great blend of practical ideas, concepts to think about, and cutting edge science. Listen to the podcast for a while and you’ll learn some things about sobriety, some things about pornography, lots about relationship, about prayer, exercise, nutrition, and how to handle emotions. Really great resource!
  • AnonymousCatholicgirl
    Spectacular!!
    LIFE CHANGING ADVICE AND MISSION!!! THANK YOU!!!
  • Jonathan S Foley
    Incredible for pre-marriage men
    This is an amazing podcast. I just got engaged and will be getting married in about 7 months. These concepts have given me so many outlets and avenues for healing. A big thank you to everyone who have made this podcast possible.
  • WestTXSunset
    DANGER
    Beware, if you listen to this podcast, you will not be the same. It will change your life and, though the road may be bumpy, will lead you to freedom, fulfillment in the Lord, and deeper relationships with the people around you.
  • Roboto38986
    Just start listening!
    Are you a Christian male seeking freedom from pornography, and healing for your soul? Just start listening. 29 (M), I’ve been following for just over a year now, and this podcast has been one of the most constructive tools in my recovery.
  • Pbrot
    Such a great resource!
    I wish I had this podcast years ago! So much practical and helpful information. We are benefiting so much from Drew’s journey of healing and recovery.
  • MTB Crash Davis
    Tools For Empowerment
    I’ve only listened to 3 episodes so far & have been totally blessed by each one! I have listened & read so many sources in my recovery journey & this is some of the best material I have come across! So thankful for Drew Boa & his work! I look forward to listening to more!
  • Milltello
    HMA Online
    Drew has worked hard to build an online community and content that I find safe and encouraging. It is Gospel and faith focused.
  • James zzxxyy
    What a Godsend!
    These Husband Material podcasts are extremely insightful! I have learned so much about myself which unveils the mysterious aspects of addictive behavior thus taking away its power. So many things resonate that I had know idea had anything to do with me. All Christian men should check out Drew’s podcasts to find true relief and healing.
  • CGAggie
    Superior
    This is a superior resource for those dealing with unwanted sexual habits. Porn is an addiction and public health crisis. This podcast treats the issue with proper seriousness and humility without making you feel bad.
  • jgihri
    First Light
    I’m 40. I’ve been involved in numerous accountability groups, counseling, self help, etc. This resource goes deeper than I ever realized. I’m very thankful.
  • wookie_guitar
    So. Helpful.
    Drew Boa’s approach in this podcast is unique and so helpful. Instead of a shameful and self-hatred approach to defeating porn, he helps us see that we have used porn as a solution to deep problems. In this way we are able to bless our journey and our bodies and more deeply understand the WHY of our addiction. Drew has lots of guests on the show who are experts in their field and the diversity is awesome. This has been refreshing and helpful for me on the journey of recovery from porn.
  • Peranikan
    Hopeful, fun, and insightful
    Drew Boa does an amazing job keeping incredibly painful subjects upbeat and hopeful. It gets serious and heavy sometimes, but refuses to stay melancholy or let shame win.
  • $6nick2
    Much needed today
    I am a Christian mental health therapist, an I’m also in recovery, and this is the best podcast out there on sexual addiction from a Christian perspective. The theology is accurate and the science (grounded in evidence based attachment theory, CBT, EFT, and other psychological perspectives) is spot on.
  • gokhciugh
    Life-changing
    This is a weekly listen for me. Drew approaches different topics in sexuality and addiction with humility, openness and a Christ-centered perspective. He also brings different perspectives from various voices studying and practicing the field of sexual recovery. Husband Material has been the beginning of a new chapter in my life!
  • barefootballads814
    Relevant and powerful
    From what I’ve found the very BEST podcast on sexual brokenness and healing. Drew’s words have been truly life-changing. I cannot recommend his resources enough to anyone seeking to grow in this area.
  • COLRDPMD
    Powerful and Compassionate Ministry
    “Husband Material” is an amazing ministry! Drew is an outstanding speaker and teacher, with a great insight to human nature. He discusses the difficult topic of sexual addiction in an incredibly honest and vulnerable manner. His personality and teaching style is extremely engaging, encouraging and optimistic! He successfully integrates Christian and Biblical perspectives with neuroscience principles and relational development to help understand the underlying core issues that lead to unwanted sexual behaviors. The “Husband Material” podcast and YouTube channel is absolutely one of best resources for people who desire to overcome unwanted sexual behaviors.
  • Randy Gasser
    Husband Material
    Drew Boa via his Husband Material website is uniquely qualified and courageous enough to tackle perhaps the most pressing and pervasive problems that nearly all men deal with on a daily basis. His understanding, years of research and practical application advice is unequalled.
  • brokenkiwi
    Healing Sexual Brokenness
    I appreciate all the podcasts I’ve watched and listened to so far. They’re helping me discover the reasons for my brokenness and healing the hurt of many years. The podcasts cover sensitive subjects so boldly and respectfully. Drew Boa shares the expertise of years of study and years of experience (his own and the guests he invites on his show). Thank you, Drew! You’re a blessing to all of us, striving to be better husband material!!!
  • Derek Nicol
    Much needed podcast
    Every podcast catches me off guard, and I think, "That's a podcast I didn't know I needed." Drew has a gift for tackling taboo subjects about masculinity in a way that feels honoring to God and timely for men. I imagine I'll be a long-time listener of this godsend of a podcast.
  • meep949zay
    Grateful
    I am so grateful for this podcast and Community. Drew and his Guest have helped me to see my value As a loved son of God and that there is hope to over come the struggle. Things I've learned is that I'm not alone, when in doubt F.L.O.S.S. it out and countless other things. Thank you Drew.
  • NCmacASL
    Excellent Resource for any Sexual Brokenness Issues
    If Dr. Ruth and Mr. Rogers had a child, he would grow up to become Drew Boa!! He is refreshingly sexually blunt, while also loving, accepting of and caring for all men who struggle with sexual brokenness. This informative podcast is a gateway to his larger ministry with men in this area. Drew offers hope to all men struggling with sexual issues,
  • jasonp256
    Must give it a try!
    If you’re needing something different give HM a listen! Drew brings something new to the table, tackles deep questions our hearts and minds ask, and has a special gift of keeping it fun while challenging the listener profoundly.
  • Fjdosk h
    Life Changing
    Drew and his podcast have changed my life. It’s as simple as that. I could not recommend a better podcast for Christian men that don’t understand porn. It is educational and I guarantee that it will at the very least get you started on the path to freedom. A must listen.
  • donahuegraham
    Best Resource On This Topic
    Husband Material is by far the best resource out there on dealing with unwanted sexual behavior, porn or otherwise.
  • Wbclarinet427
    Great work!
    Drew’s podcast is great for helping anyone who wants to understand why they are struggling with porn. He is authentic and up front with his own story and give solid tips on how to improve yourself.
  • Danadelfos
    Grateful
    Drew has a beautiful heart. I’m thankful for you and this podcast! 10 stars. But I can only give 5.
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