Death, Sex & Money

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Anna Sale explores the big questions and hard choices that are often left out of polite conversation.

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  • giraffeyamama
    Love DSM
    So glad DSM has found a new home!
  • AnotherPodcastEnthusiast
    Unfair to Guests
    This show highlights guests who are outliers or who aren’t in touch with their own motivations. The money/anorexia woman must have had everyone screaming at the podcast. She’s very deluded for someone training to be a therapist. I blame Anna Sale for having her air her unreflected craziness.
  • Hatt-family
    So Good!
    Keep up the great podcast Anna. I appreciate you.☮️💟
  • NerdforTC
    Curious about the sociopathic mother…
    I love this podcast. As so many others have said, Anna is a great interviewer. I can always count on her to ask the hard questions. Having said that, I have to say that I was really disappointed with the recent episode with the sociopathic mother, Patric. I feel like so many great but uncomfortable questions weren’t asked! Why? This topic is insanely interesting but by the end of the episode, I was screaming, “Really, that’s it?!” Why not ask more questions about attachment, love, and how her inability to maybe emote the feeling of love affects her children, affects her experience or her partner’s experience of her as a mother? This episode was just so extremely whitewashed that I have to think the guest refused to delve in to certain topics. There had to be some prior agreement that Anna and the guest would only scratch the surface of how her sociopathy has impacted her life and relationships. Also, it would have been more enlightening to speak with her partner. We only received a one-sided perspective …a one-sided perspective from a Sociopath. The interview was just not what I’ve come to expect from Anna.
  • sierrachi
    Longtime Listener
    I’ve been listening to DSM since I was in college, 9 or 10 years ago now! It’s remained my favorite podcast though so many periods in my life. Grateful to Anna Sale and the team for fighting to keep this insightful, unique podcast alive.
  • danger_ryan
    Great stories
    Really well produced. Great stories. I love this podcast. Anna is the BEST interviewer I have ever heard. The unbiased, non judgmental tone is something you don’t often hear. She is amazing.
  • Meg Reynolds1983
    Bring back the old style episodes
    The valentines episode is the 3rd time you have played that episode. Seriously? Another rerun with no new content this week. Replaying old episodes with zero new episodes is not podcasting. Such a dumb move. I’m miss when you talked about things like death, sex, and money. Now it’s just boring interviews with people no one has ever heard of. Bring back the juicy episodes! So many reviews say this, you gotta listen to us Anna!
  • Me2 like it
    Unique and intriguing and soothing
    Thanks for the wonderful topics and expanding my views 🥰
  • CentralWA;Maura
    All-time BEST
    Big thanks to Slate for picking up Death, Sex & Money. Knowing I wouldn’t be able to listen to Anna Sale was almost like experiencing a break up. I’ve been listening to this podcast since 2020 and there’s nothing like it. I’ve saved the following episodes because they’re worth the re-listening: 424, 409,393,385,364,356 and 304. I frequently share these episodes either family, friends, loved ones & colleagues because it helps me communicate subjects that are necessary but too uncomfortable to talk about.
  • ValiPacificNW
    Anna Sales' fantastic true life storytelling is a podcast gem
    I recently heard about DSM from Jonathan Goldstein's Heavyweight and have been a listener and supporter ever since. So grateful for Slate providing a home for this podcast gem. Thank you Anna and Slate and hope thatHeavyweight can find a new home too. As an avid podcast listener, I also hope that online podcast platforms will support these smaller soul-impacting podcasts instead of concentraining their budgets on the overhyped shallow mega programs.
  • pualanastyle
    Hooked! Deeply personal stories told in the compassionate way!
    Once I heard the episode on Big Freida (sp?) about her experience during Katrina and being displaced and finding her grove back in New Orleans, I knew this was my new favorite storytelling podcast. These stories keep me listening again and again, there’s just so much love and compassion and a chance for understanding in these deeply personal stories without feeling like the guest is being exploited. One of my favorite podcasts ever!
  • BDazzlin
    Consistently wonderful podcast
    I have been listening to D, S,
  • Vicki Larson
    A most compassionate interviewer
    Talking about the hard stuff—and what’s harder than sex, death and money?— isn’t so hard with Anna, the most compassionate interviewer I've heard on a podcast. Every show is a gem.
  • we are the neighbors
    Death Sex and Money tackles the issues.
    Thanks to Anna Sale and team for your great work. So glad you will keep going!
  • morris county gal
    So happy to hear life continues
    I have been an on and off listener of DSM for 5+ years. There is a sort of a cathartic feeling each time I listen an episode. Even if the story or interview I am listening to may not exactly match my own circumstance, there is small nugget of the feeling the subject is experiencing that feels like my own. TYSM for digging deep, asking the tough questions with such kindness and empathy. One of my favorite episodes of the show was the interview with Madeline Albright. There was something so real and unvarnished that came across in that conversation. Anna Sale, I aspire to have your level of EQ when I grow up!
  • julianalaury
    Long Time Listener
    I’m finally writing a review after nearly 10 years of listening to my favorite and ONLY podcast that I follow regularly, DSM. As someone who is always trying to speak with a kind of blunt truth to others, it’s great to see a show tackling the things we NEED to talk about, and not just sticking to one topic alone. That becomes one-note and this show is varied and I love that. My most recent favorite was with Ezra Klein (why he thinks we’re living through a mistake) because I also have three kids all under 6 years old (also why this is the only show I follow), and parenting topics can be fraught but this was one I shared with fellow parents. I hope to be a death doula one day, so I love intimate stories of death because it’s a topic I just love to discuss. It has a little “This American Life” feel to it in that it’s about real people (which are my favorites not celebrities as much), and the episode about people who accidentally killed someone in a car accident has stayed with me deeply. Thank you for all the work you put into this important show.
  • Laurie Doppman
    Death Reincarnate!
    So happy to know DS&M is making a comeback! It’s such a well produced show that shines the spotlight on incredibly important topics. Anna Sale, if ever you read this, please know that you make we want to ask better questions, both as a therapist and as I continue reflecting on my own life. I appreciate your thoughtfulness, candor, and willingness to explore the hard conversations everyone needs to be having. I discovered the podcast last year, at the time the Estrangement series was being featured, and I got hooked. Really loved those stories in particular, but am excited for anything you’ll put forth in the future!
  • ams4467
    Love this show, so happy it’s coming back
    I can’t pick a favorite episode but I have loved all of the listener call-in shows about any topic: student debt, estrangement, cheating. The celebrity interviews I didn’t love so much. There are so many interview shows out there and this one just didn’t rise above the rest.
  • Laura EIU
    A humanizing and reality grounded podcast
    This podcast is usually what I turn to when something upsetting or unexpected happens in my life and I need to see how other people handled it. It makes me feel less isolated knowing other people are dealing with exactly what I’m going through. Hi Anna and team! Per Anna’s voice memo from 1/22, just wanted to say how excited I am to hear you’re stayin alive! My favorite podcasts that you guys have made includes the strip club during quarantine, the abandonment series, and I really like the interviews you do with authors/celebs. Harvey Firestein, John green, and the author of queenie being some of the standouts. I’m going to be looking through your catalog shortly for episodes about getting laid off as that just happened to me at the start of January 2024. Hearing the new opportunity you guys have makes me hopeful for my prospects. Have a good deserved break before coming back roaring :)
  • Addison’s mom
    One of my favorites!
    I’m a long time listern and was so excited - and relieved - to hear that Death, Sex, and Money will continue! The podcast takes on complicated and difficult issues in both humorous and serious ways, to engage listeners with the nuance of topics we encounter every day but don’t seem to know how to discuss. Can’t wait for more episodes in 2024!
  • Clfclf918
    Great
    Glad the podcast lives! The Estrangement series was really well done. I’ve enjoyed the multi episode theme series the most!
  • Katemomwifeclin
    Amazing podcast
    I just love the breadth of this podcast. The whole team is amazing and I find myself often laughing, crying, and nodding along all within one episode. I love them all but I think my favorite series is’, ‘Becoming a Father in ‘Prison’! I love hearing from both sides and the honesty behind it and Anna addressing the harmful original title.
  • Mustnaglover
    Absolutely touching
    Always an episode to make me laugh or cry. I love the episodes in fun like the mover Adonis, and the series on erectile dysfunction inspired me to be more open in conversations with my partner.
  • Pilot24
    Always a lesson to learn
    Even when listening to stories that I can’t “relate” to, I still found a profound message that I could take away. My favorite episodes include “A Prison Guard in Transition,” “Titus’s Burgess Airs His Laundry,” and “A Trans Parent’s Adoption Journey.” Each of these had such powerful messages that made me reflect on who I am and who I want to be. I have listened to DSM since I was a freshman in college and I have grown with the show itself. I can’t wait for new episodes!
  • LanePodcasts
    My go-to podcast to spark conversation
    Don’t know how to talk _____? We’ll, just listen then. I’ve been a long time fan of Death, Sex & Money. It’s been a way for me to start meaningful conversations with my friends and family, usually during a long car ride about topics that are a bit taboo like Student Debt, the cost of having a baby, cancer, sibling rivalry and so on. I’m thrilled by the variety of topics and the first hand narrative of the guests on the show. It’s a podcast unlike any other that I’ve encountered. A true gem!!
  • ;f;aie
    Oh how I love this podcast!
    Heart-stirring depth, humor, deep conversations about what it is to be human. Anna’s laugh makes my heart smile. Loved the interview with Chaz Ebert.
  • KassK44
    One of my favorites
    Anna is an amazing interviewer and DSM covers important topics that other podcasts don’t get into as much
  • 12emro
    Favorite Episodes
    So many moments from Death, Sex, and Money stick with me after all of this time listening: Ellen Burstyn coining “a should-less day”, which is still boldly displayed on my favorite coffee mug. Another was the interview with Saeed Jones and me immediately listening to the audiobook of their memoir “How We Fight For Our Lives” to follow. The episode with Mahershala Ali led me to enthusiastically watching his life changing movie Moonlight. Most notably, DSM introduced me to Chris Garcia’s podcast Scattered. My father immigrated from Cuba as a 5 year-old. I have never been able to have conversations with my abuela and abuelo, his parents, about their life in Cuba given their profound losses emotionally, physically, and economically. I binged Scattered, piecing together both Cuba’s and my personal family history. Attending Chris Garcia’s standup in Sacramento a few years back allowed the two of us to meet and for me to tell him how meaningful his work is to me. So thank you, Anna. I hope you get to keep making more meaningful DSM episodes for years to come!
  • T. Dapkey
    Favorite episodes
    Any episode with Ellen Burstyn is always a conversation I need to hear. I also appreciate the episodes that discuss sex work without shame or judgement.
  • Sarahjsletters
    Great podcast filled with needed conversations about personal experiences
    I have been listening to the Death, Sex and Money podcast for a few years. It has covered so many different topics and perspectives, but all of he interviews have a special intimacy and emotion because of the way Anna Sale holds conversations with her guests. One of the episodes that got me hooked was “After Suicides, a Texas Veterinary Community Opens Up.” I thought it was very insightful and impactful. Listening to this episode helped me to reflect on the suicide attempts of a couple of my friends and better process to them.
  • A. Clock
    What I needed to hear
    The episode “How to Say Goodbye to Your Pets” came just in time for me, and I’m sure many other listeners. It was almost a year before I put down my pet, but it allowed me to think through how to do right by my old and declining pet, and helped me prepare emotionally. I returned to the episode 2 more times as I prepared for his death and it really helped. “An End of Life Doctor’s Shocking Loss” also helped as the end got closer… and made me cry (in a good way). Other episodes that particularly stand out to me are: “What I live with: the aftermath of fatal accidents” - I had never heard this discussed before and it really moved me; I am so glad this was a topic. Interview(s) with a sex worker Estrangement episodes Student loans episodes - not fun but helpful lol
  • Tim Mah
    Love
    Love the stories DSM brings to us. The episode with Niecy Nash is my favorite 🖤
  • PegsCats
    DSM
    I love this podcast and Anna Sales’ intelligent conversations. As a grieving mother I’m always interested in how the rest of the world manages death. Keep up the good work.
  • LaraKD
    A go-to podcasts for YEARS!
    Death, Sex & Money has been one of my go-to podcasts for years. And that’s saying a lot because I listen to A LOT of podcasts and rotate through many of them pretty quickly. DSM is one of only about three shows that I consistently come back to. Anna is a master interviewer who balances hard questions with genuine warmth. She and her team have created a dynamic community of listeners and are the best I’ve seen at connecting with them as humans, not just listeners. One of my favorite recent episodes was about estrangement. I’ve been estranged from a family member on and off for many years and have felt very alone in the journey. That episode made me feel seen and helped me shed some of the shame I’ve carried around from my decision to distance myself from a close family member. Frankly, it doesn’t even matter which episode you start with if you’re new to the show. The conversations are always insightful and deeply human.
  • SoundsLike08
    My favorite podcast episode of all time…
    … is the Bill Withers interview. I send it to family, friends, new acquaintances, and potential suitors ALL THE TIME! And probably listen to it once a year myself for creative inspiration. It’s truly an example of fantastic interviewing and contact creation. I’m so happy for Anna and the team that the podcast has found a new home working with Slate. Kudos to you guys and keep it up! You are legend!
  • Ashmarieb
    The Podcast We ‘Need To Talk About More’
    Anna is a remarkably patient, thoughtful, and intuitive host, and she handles interviews with an openness and tact that makes even the most difficult and uncomfortable conversations approachable and relatable. She helps me understand people better, understand the world better, and understand myself better. A couple of my favorite episodes are Why I Steal, and the series she did on student loans. As a college professor, it’s important to me that my students are set up for success, and there’s nothing more powerful to them than to hear from people who are or have been recently in their positions saying ‘if I had it to do over, this is what I’ve learned…’
  • KL_in_TX
    Episode with Carmen Maria Machado
    I don’t remember how I first started listening to DS&M, but the episode from early 2020 with author Carmen Maria Machado confirmed everything I knew deep down about my toxic relationship and gave me the conviction to break things off… for that I will forever be grateful!!
  • Alreadasleepy.
    Slate
    Good luck with Slate transition! I feel like you all could do many more episodes on the estranged topic. Family, coworkers, folks you met in an organization that you were once close with, etc.
  • beanerbobanner
    The taboo
    I think the episodes I like the most for this podcast talk about taboo topics - like, a woman who has serious mental health challenges, deciding to have two babies. Glad to hear the podcast lives on!
  • eugenaQ
    An ending I don’t want to talk about
    This podcast is so well done. Relevant and interesting REAL issues that affect all of us covered in a thoughtful and meaningful way. You broaden my world and make my heart bigger. I rarely feel connected to humanity but this podcast helps me to see. I listened to each episode immediately. It has made my life brighter and more rich. I would listen just to hear Anna’s laugh. The best!
  • Dotee
    Hooked!!!
    The first episode I ever listened to had me hooked! It was about a mover in NYC named Adonis…it was funny, touching and simply beautiful. I haven’t stopped listening ever since. I am so thankful for the DS&M team, the show makes me a better person.
  • Katelynn60
    Can’t wait to see what 2024 brings
    I’ve been listening to this podcast since the beginning and find it inspiring, uplifting and informative. Anna Sales’ approach to interviewing folks from all walks of life and experience is gentle, compassionate while also being incisive and unafraid to ask the hard questions. Favorite show? There are too many but learning about the other side of sex workers’ lives, shop lifters, and people struggling with finances has really opened up my eyes and heart to new worlds. This is a brave and compassionate show that goes beyond the usual to stir up and open our inner worlds.
  • Lysie9704
    Thrilled the show will be returning!
    I’ve been listening to DSM since it launched. Anna’s warm voice and masterful interviewing skills lead to the kind of conversations you won’t hear anywhere else - even with subjects who get interviewed a lot, Anna always brings out new stories and a different side of the people she’s talking to. My favorite episodes have been the ones with Jason Isbell and Amanda Shires, two musicians I learned about through the podcast and have followed ever since. The shoplifting episode and follow up also really stuck with me.
  • geyergerl
    Love Death, Sex and Money!
    What can I say, Anna Sale is the best at what she does. She is a brave and sensitive explorer of the human soul. Her interviews are real, emotional, uncomfortable at times, but always balanced with her contagious laugh. I’ve spent hours listening to DS & M while cooking, gardening and quilting. The episode with Addinos highlighted the hope of human goodness and unending generosity. Other episodes were heartbreaking, and raw. Anna is always concise asks questions that most would shy away from, but her interest was always backed by compassion, never fueled by sensationalism. DS & M is so different, entertaining and enlightening in the most sensitive and human way. Anna brings the perfect blend of humor, compassion and entertainment. She is one of a kind!
  • Blzangurl
    My favorites
    I was so heartbroken to hear my favorite podcast was ending and of course I’m now over the moon that we still get to have DSM! Thank you Anna! So to my favorites: Between Friends: your stories about race and friendship, and the estrangement series are my top two faves. Both resonated with me in ways I couldn’t anticipate.
  • Mollymontana79
    Like An Old Friend
    Anna and the team deliver a quality podcast week after week exposing me to people and ideas that I wouldn’t be otherwise. For example, the recent episode about inheritance and a new generation of people sharing their inheritance, had me thinking about this idea for days. Not to mention Anna’s terrific laugh-it all makes for time well spent with this podcast.
  • frenchiepb
    One of my favorite must-listen podcasts!
    So glad y’all keep to chugging! Favorite/most memorable episodes so far are the one with Saeed Jones, the one from the woman who went into debt after working for a debt collection company, Tressie MCCillian Cottom and Trevor Noah, the NY mover episode, the estrangement episode, and the breakup stories.
  • Manateegirl727
    A model for compassion and curiosity
    This show is one of the all-time bests. Anna Sale is a fantastic interviewer, bringing the same level of engagement and genuine curiosity to an a-list celebrity as an unknown convict or adulterer. I come away from these episodes feeling better about humanity, and that’s not something I feel often these days.
  • Pinfan81
    Long-time Listener
    I’ve been listening to Death, Sex, and Money since 2015. The episode that stands out for me is the Ellen Burstyn interview. What a life she’s lived. One of the lessons from that episode that sticks with me to this day is her “Should-less Days." Days where you shouldn’t feel obligated to do anything. Anna Sale is a great interviewer who is genuinely curious and respects her guests. She gives them space to express themselves in a way that is quite compelling. I don’t listen to her show every week but when I do, I’m always fascinated by the topic.
  • Mandobeeg
    Heart based, human, responsive
    Death sex and money is one of my foundational podcasts. Whatever the subject, to hear from a variety of listeners, be in conversation with so many about things that I am interested and intensely curious about, is so satisfying. The inheritance show very good, and would love to hear more about how LGBTQ people are excluded from family wealth, and the reasons Black Americans don’t have nearly as much topass on because of redlining, etc etc. What would it mean for a white personal to do personal reparations. Stuff like that.
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